We hope to offer companionship and courage to those leaving inherited faiths and discovering themselves later in life; one story, one pour, and one truth at a time.

DeEtte Decker
DeEtte Decker, M.Div.

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Abbi Long, M.Div., Ph.D.

We’d love to hear from you! Share your story, question, or experience with us, and you might be featured on a future episode of Barrels Belief and Becoming.

A polished, turquoise enamel compass with whimsical, oversized rounded edges and a bright coral needle, resting atop a spiral-bound journal with a pale lavender cover and doodled borders. The journal lies on a sunny picnic blanket patterned with bold, rounded shapes in sunset colors, surrounded by scattered flower petals. Glowing late afternoon sunlight casts warm highlights over the scene and produces soft shadows beneath the compass and journal. The overall mood is hopeful and adventurous, emblematic of navigation and discovery within faith journeys. Photographed at an eye-level perspective with a slight tilt, the image feels vivid, playful, and carefully composed, matching the energetic, open spirit of the site.

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